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29th January 2023 at 8:05 pm #154946AnonymousInactive
(detailed removed by Moderator) at my door!!! High rated and crying I always told him never come to my home again shouting on my doorstep triggering me again….waiting for a call from the police
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29th January 2023 at 9:04 pm #154948StrongenoughParticipant
Hi icandothis,
This must have been very frightening for you. Please let us know you are safe, well done for calling the police.
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29th January 2023 at 9:09 pm #154949AnonymousInactive
Hi strongenough yes I’m OK thanks I were stunned him banging the heck out of my door then he seemed to go into a rage I said go away and shut the door….he did this all throughout the relationship kept turning up once I’d (detailed removed by Moderator) calls in 48 hrs he’s absolutely mad xx
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29th January 2023 at 9:13 pm #154950AnonymousInactive
He cried on and of throughput the relationship a class act….all the nastiness he’s done and his decades of gambling…. he looked pathetic stood at the door so false wow so glad to be aware I understand why his ex got cameras up x
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29th January 2023 at 9:32 pm #154951StrongenoughParticipant
Glad to hear your OK, as exhausting as it is reporting him to police everytime is really the only way to go. Isn’t it strange how they act once they lose control over you!
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29th January 2023 at 9:36 pm #154952AnonymousInactive
It is….it were a complete nightmare with him… his ex wife warned me….and said whatever you do never let him live with you u won’t get rid of him. He’s driven me into the ground I’m still grieving losing my young son aswell he knew this x
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29th January 2023 at 9:38 pm #154953AnonymousInactive
Before I cut contact he would say when we separated how he would have to pay me a visit as its not sinking in….x
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29th January 2023 at 9:49 pm #154954AnonymousInactive
A normal break up just wouldn’t be like this sorry for going on he’s really upset me x
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29th January 2023 at 9:58 pm #154955StrongenoughParticipant
Abusers care only about themselves and getting what they want, unfortunately this means they will not consider the impact of their actions on you.
I’m glad you reached out to the police and this forum tonight, going through this must be terrible for you and its important not to try and manage all on your own. I know first hand how soothing posting on here can be when your worried or afraid. I hope you have other supports also for your grief and trauma, take care x
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2nd February 2023 at 6:47 am #155046StrongLifeParticipant
I’m sorry this happened.
The ex did similar things in my case and I fled. It was all horrific and not something that is happening now for me.
It must have been so scary for you and glad you managed to get in contact with police.
This is something common they do. They all seem to have same rule book.
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