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    • #154946
      Anonymous
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      (detailed removed by Moderator) at my door!!! High rated and crying I always told him never come to my home again shouting on my doorstep triggering me again….waiting for a call from the police

    • #154948
      Strongenough
      Participant

      Hi icandothis,

      This must have been very frightening for you. Please let us know you are safe, well done for calling the police.

    • #154949
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      Hi strongenough yes I’m OK thanks I were stunned him banging the heck out of my door then he seemed to go into a rage I said go away and shut the door….he did this all throughout the relationship kept turning up once I’d (detailed removed by Moderator) calls in 48 hrs he’s absolutely mad xx

    • #154950
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      He cried on and of throughput the relationship a class act….all the nastiness he’s done and his decades of gambling…. he looked pathetic stood at the door so false wow so glad to be aware I understand why his ex got cameras up x

    • #154951
      Strongenough
      Participant

      Glad to hear your OK, as exhausting as it is reporting him to police everytime is really the only way to go. Isn’t it strange how they act once they lose control over you!

    • #154952
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      It is….it were a complete nightmare with him… his ex wife warned me….and said whatever you do never let him live with you u won’t get rid of him. He’s driven me into the ground I’m still grieving losing my young son aswell he knew this x

    • #154953
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      Before I cut contact he would say when we separated how he would have to pay me a visit as its not sinking in….x

    • #154954
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      A normal break up just wouldn’t be like this sorry for going on he’s really upset me x

      • #154955
        Strongenough
        Participant

        Abusers care only about themselves and getting what they want, unfortunately this means they will not consider the impact of their actions on you.

        I’m glad you reached out to the police and this forum tonight, going through this must be terrible for you and its important not to try and manage all on your own. I know first hand how soothing posting on here can be when your worried or afraid. I hope you have other supports also for your grief and trauma, take care x

    • #155046
      StrongLife
      Participant

      I’m sorry this happened.

      The ex did similar things in my case and I fled. It was all horrific and not something that is happening now for me.

      It must have been so scary for you and glad you managed to get in contact with police.

      This is something common they do. They all seem to have same rule book.

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