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    • #46267
      Anonymous
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      Are still going round in my head. For me the mind games were the worse. How it were me who changed him. And mentally scarred him. How he never stripped me of my confidence. How he can get far better than me but yet when he did move on it only lasted a few mnths as he lost it with her. When i went through what he did physically he said it werent a beating just a back hander and how il never admit my part. Whats coming to my mind recently though is once id gone out came home after a few drinks he were trying his luck i said no im too tired he said just lie there u dnt have to do anything.. this makes me sick to the stomach x

    • #46270
      Confused123
      Participant

      Hi HUn

      They really did have no value for us, i remembeer when mine used to the same say to me, u only have to lie there. Process the thoughts out then the hardest bit is not to allow them in our thoughts, i think its healthy to process what happened so we dont put ourselves in that situation again and will be able to recognise the signs, i was doing so well till reecently, his just in my head again and i can see the negative effects on me already

    • #46277
      Borntobefree
      Participant

      They are sick evil parasites

      My ex abused me under medication.
      He was always in control

      And police said I had an obsession with him

      Police are all the same I ain’t ended my fight yet ..keep strong ladies Ian trying

    • #46457
      AssisiB
      Participant

      Hi,

      I’m new to the site and I’m trying to contact with my ex.

      It’s so hard to forget all of the thins that he said to me. They play and play and play on in my mind like a broken record beating and beating me over and over again.

      The worse thing is what I miss, our sex was amazing! I have never clicked so well with anyone. When it was good we were like BEST friends and then so compatiable in the bedroom. I’m scared I will never find that again.

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