Always about money

[Butterfly-Warrior]

Good morning all

Not sure what I want from this post I just need to get it off my chest as my stress is feeling very heavy. I have never wanted to cry so much in life and there’s so much going on in my head.
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The thing is, I have got myself into a bit off a rut with it and now can’t pay my rent. I know this is going to cause absolute murder when I get home from work and I just do not have the energy for it. I have 2 options the first is come clean and face the chaos or just run away I prefer the latter as I just can’t even bare facing him when he’s all high and mighty.

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Any advice on how I to go about this would be greatly appreciated l.

[Lisa]

Hi Butterfly-Warrior,

Thank you for your post. sorry to hear about what is happening for you. your safety is really important and wouldn’t want you to be in a unsafe situation.

The Financial Support Line for Victims of Domestic Abuse is a service specialising in the financial side of domestic abuse. Anyone who has experienced domestic abuse can call for one-off advice regarding debts, benefits and budgeting from the Financial Support Line, or self-refer for ongoing casework on 0808 196 8845 (Mon-Thurs 9am- 5pm)

Best Wishes

Lisa

[Twisted Sister]

Hi Butterfly-Warrior

I am sorry to hear your fear of him, and hope that you are ok?

Do keep posting and asking for support and advice when you need it. Its the worst to be feeling the way you do about returning to your own home in the evening. When home is no longer your refuge but instead somewhere you seek refuge from.

Look after yourself all you can and get all the supports you can, you deserve more, so much more.

warmest wishes

ts

[Hereforhelp]

Hi Butterfly-Warrior, please keep safe, your safety is paramount x
Also, maybe email your local Citizens advice bureau about the financial abuse (all the abusive behaviours if you choose), I found them helpful, my husband’s god is money, the CAB signposted me to a local cafe which specialises in DA/DV
Stay strong and keep posting
HFH ❤️

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