Can you remember the last attack did you say or do something differently or was there someone else in the room?
Though there was an incident the other week it has been years before he last physical hurt me. On the one before last he did it in front of our son, he was upset and I told him that if he ever touched me again it would be the last thing he ever do.
But then the mental abuse got much worse.
I think they change how they abuse to keep us on our toes, so we don’t know what way it’s coming. And they are all ways in charge of the situation. Also no physical signs of abuse so harder to get evidence of what is happening.
I would say from my resent experience just be aware if they feel like they are lossing control of you he may turn violent again.