Am I in the wrong?

[TinkaBella]

So it’s been a long time since I posted on here, I don’t know whether things have got better or whether I am becoming immune to it. Something happened (detail removed by Moderator) that makes me question myself…we were having a row (usual) and I got to a point I was so angry I stood up for myself (unusual). I did say something quite personal and cruel which I feel guilty about, but surely it can’t be any worse than things he has said to me over the years?! Anyway he said that the only reason he didn’t smash my face in was because I’m pregnant…the fact that the thought even goes through his head says everything doesn’t it??!!

[Bananaboat]

Gosh I’m sorry you’ve had this experience. I hope you’re ok and safe now. I read something on here the other day about reactive abuse, I don’t know much about it but sometimes we’re pushed so far we bite back x

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