I am so sorry. I wish I could be there for you. You got everything horrible at the same time. I had that when I fled too. Everything happens at the same time.
What is going on with SS? Did you get support from anywhere?
So sorry Bridget you must be really hurting at the minute. Wish there was something I could do or say to make u feel better. Just know we are all thinking of you. I do understand to a degree as my grandfather just recently passed away aswell and did the same thing. Told them he didn’t want any treatment and stopped eating it’s a terrible, horrible thing to have to see. The only consolation in my case was that for him it was over with quite quickly and then he was out of pain but of course the selfish side of me wanted to hold on to him and not let him go.