Having a bad day with husband. Awake ill all night. This morning (detail removed by moderator) because I was hot with fever. He was angry,saying ‘(detail removed by moderator).’ I nearly rang my family because I was so upset. But I stopped myself because I didn’t want to upset them. We’ve had a lot of upset with my Dad passing away (detail removed by moderator). I asked him if he would buy me some tablets, he didn’t want to buy them but he did. Said he had (detail removed by moderator). I don’t think he can cope with me when I am ill or maybe he doesn’t care? Raising his voice but not shouting.Its not easy to ignore abuse when you’re ill. Depression not good. Can’t take antidepressants because of side effects. Thanks for listening. Take care.
I’m sorry to hear you’ve had such a tough time. It is difficult enough being ill and having a disturbed night without him making it so much worse, I imagine his lack of empathy for you is really upsetting.