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      betterdays
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      Of all different emotions going over everything again. Silly things like I wonder if he’s hurting if he’s feeling the pain I am. Then thinking how me and the kids have been destroyed my eldest 2 boys don’t trust people. One of them is starting art psychotherapy this week. They won’t even attend social groups because of there lack of trust in people. One of them just can’t even sit down for long as he tthinks of bad things. I’m left with so many things to deal with now. I’ve been no contact (detail removed by moderator) weeks longest EVER I’ve been tempted but won’t give the bstrd the satisfaction xx

    • #15551
      Serenity
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      Abusers are too cowardly to feel their own pain. So they make others feel it for them.

      When they have no one to abuse, they are forced to face their own inner emptiness. They hate being alone.

      So either they make constant contact with you, or they avoid themselves by turning to booze or women.

      My ex went no contact for a little while, but only for a short while. Now, any chance he gets to annoy me, he will. But if there is no way or reaching you, there is no choice.

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