Arguing with me

[Headcook]

Just been kicked !

He’s taking what he wants from house that was jointly paid for
What he doesn’t want he’s leaving and I can dispose of
Joint tenants joint tenancy my deposit though

Asked how it’s fair I get the bill
Don’t care
If you are awkward over this I will kick your head in before the end

Then had summit thrown at my head and kicked in leg
I pressed his buttons again

Hc

[Wants To Help]

HC,

You haven’t pressed his buttons, he has assaulted you. Fact.

Do not take responsibility for his actions.

Do you have a bruise? Do you need medical attention for any injury?

[Headcook]

Don’t need attention

Came in my room without knocking persecuted me I’m not a nice person
Why do I think I’m a nice person cause I’m really not
Tried pull partner into it

No she doesn’t think he will do it to her else wouldn’t be moving out with you

On and on
I asked him to leave many times
So I left
Sat on street
Hc

[KIP.]

This is the abuse escalating to a dangerous level. When he says he will kick your head in, he means it. I’d ring the police and have him removed before it’s too late.

[queenmaeve]

Please get the Police involved immediately.

[Headcook]

Why can’t he just let us all go our own ways

Stupid girl of course he’s going to do it to you

I’m going crazy
My head is ready to explode

[queenmaeve]

If you ring the Police they can get help for you. Maybe you need some help also from a doctor.

[Headcook]

I Don’t need a doctor I’m ok thanks Medically

I need this to stop to end
I need a place to live
Been frantic trying to find somewhere
Been told they going (detail removed by moderator) weeks

I want them to go now

[KIP.]

What about a refuge? Could you go there for two weeks?

[Headcook]

Can you go for just 2 weeks kip ?

[Wants To Help]

HC, you don’t go for a set time limit, you go to get away from the abuse and the time it takes to get you somewhere safe to live. In this case, they may help you apply for an Occupation Order to get him out of the house. There isn’t really a time frame on how long you go to refuge for. If you call the Police tonight they’ll come and arrest him and you’ll be safe to go home tonight. If you tell them the history of the abuse I should imagine there’ll be something in place to stop him coming back any time soon.

[Headcook]

Police have history on file
Thank you for explaining that it’s clearer now
I’m phoning my support worker tomorrow
I can’t act now it’s too late as I’m calmer

Hc

[Wants To Help]

It’s not too late at all, you have been assaulted within the last couple of hours and you are not safe at home. The night shift start at 10pm, they’ve just come on duty, they’re wide awake! Give them a call.

[Headcook]

Tonite feels like a set up
I was deliberately led to the point were he could loose control
All because he had a date to move out this is how he handled it
He did exact same thing when he told me they have found somewhere

Kept on about being nice
Wants to leave clear of blame more like

[Headcook]

I should have phoned police

I was frozen yet again

I can see that today

Weak weak

[KIP.]

Next time it’s 999 x put it on speed dial on your phone x

[Lisa]

Hi Headcook

I hope you are feeling ok after a horrible day yesterday. We know it is hard to phone the police when you are frightened and in shock, if this does happen again this would be your best option as your safety is so important.

I hope you manage to have a good conversation with your support worker today and discuss your options on keeping safe for the next few weeks until they have moved out.

Take care

Lisa

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