I haven’t been on here for a while.. Much since it all changed over really.. And I know there is no point in moaning I should get out. Easier said than done though.. Anyway things have been semi ok lately.. Not like a ‘normal’ marriage and family…way from that… But…..anyway he decided he wouldn’t pick kids up from school.. Wouldn’t arrange alternative, inform anyone.. So I arrived home from work.. Not rushing. When I got to school an hour later… They were ok… (removed by moderator)… But he had decided he was going to do something else… Couldn’t ring me or school..knew I had gone to work so he would be picking them up… When I finally got hold of him.. Guess what it was my fault. I knew he was going to amuse himself…yes I did but he said he was picking them up.. There is nothing I can say because he will stand up and say it’s my fault… If I question him privately he will respond with anger and violence. Therefore he can do what he likes when he likes and does not worry of impact on kids or me.