I’ve replied to push this back up,
I know on the old forum there was books recommended so hopefully someone can advise you further.when the forum picks up more after the Christmas break.
Also, I know as a mum we always make excuses for our children, Perhaps them being firmly but fairly challenged by their uncle, on their actions, or lack of them, would not be a bad thing,
After all they are adults now and have their own minds, so shouldn’t just blindly believe their father.
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