I’ve replied to push this back up,
I know on the old forum there was books recommended so hopefully someone can advise you further.when the forum picks up more after the Christmas break.
Also, I know as a mum we always make excuses for our children, Perhaps them being firmly but fairly challenged by their uncle, on their actions, or lack of them, would not be a bad thing,
After all they are adults now and have their own minds, so shouldn’t just blindly believe their father.
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The best book I ever read is
Why does he do that by Lundy Bancroft it tells you everything you need to no gives advice for family and friends trying to support an abused family member
You will find your Abuser in this book it’s as if it was written about you
You will find it on amazon
Please if you only read one book this is the one to read
Hope this helps ladies. HC x