Hi, I’ve been trying to pluck up the courage to write on here for a few weeks now.
Left my marriage just before (detail removed by moderator) – couldn’t take any more, grown up Kids chose to come with me. Have a lovely home that is our safe & happy place
I wasn’t prepared for how much it hurts and how desperately sad i feel. I had this stupid thought that I would immediately feel better once we were out, that being away from the abuse would fix everything.
I can honestly say I don’t miss him and there’s no way in hell that I’m going back- so why do I feel this way?
How long does it take to stop feeling guilty & a failure ?
Or am I being stupid and/or crazy?