I would talk to you local women aid they would tell you everything you need to now . Have you been in touch with your doctors about your relationship and you have everything written down? Seeing a counsellor and talking to them about your relationship you would of profe with everything written down . I have been seeing my counsellor for a long time and she has everything written down what I tell her about my partner being abusive aggressive controling behaviour it’s always good to keep everything what happens written down in a book or if you have got a counsellor like me they will have everything on file. If you dont have anything written down not sure how things really work out as showing profe but you now your self hun what you been thought I am sure they would believe you pluse if you do have children they can be asked questions how things are at home .
Please talk to women aid they are really good giveing you advice and how far away you can move hun they will tell you all the answers to your questions I hope that helps you