Please don’t let someone who is not fit to lick your boots define your life’s meaning or value!
You are brave, stoical, constant; you are loving, funny, witty, you have sold your house through all this trauma- you are an inspiration!
He is not on your level. You are too good for him. You should never have settled for someone so selfish- you deserve to be treated much better, or to be given the peace to care for yourself and your boys well.
Have you made a decision about moving?
What are you doing for yourself?
Make a plan about three things you want to achieve, and work towards them. Leave him far behind you. Like all our abusers, he will always hurt you. He will hurt anyone he is with.
If you are struggling with your sons, don’t be scared to ask for help. X*x