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    • #11374
      betterdays
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      I’m totally and utterly fed up. I’m not talking to my sister as she tried controlling my life. I really don’t need it plus my mum defends her but what annoys me is my sister does absolutely nothing for anyone but shes highly regarded. Life’s hard enough with special needs sons and tthem having no friends were all isolated. My heads in a shed still. I’ve got the ex monster complaining because he can’t come to the door for access I usually let him go out to him he’s saying so is this going to be forever!!!! Why is every on targeting me and my boys??? Xx

    • #11375
      Falling Skys
      Participant

      Hi & hugs xx

      Sounds like we have all been having a bad time of late.

      You are doing a great job don’t let the negativity get you down xx

      Stay strong and don’t let the b******rs get you down.

      FS xx

      • #11377
        betterdays
        Participant

        Hi fallenstars. Thanks for your post it’s every which way I turn someone wants a piece of us…hope ur ok. X*x

    • #11379
      Serenity
      Participant

      Set new boundaries- and instead of feeling guilty or stressed about those boundaries, enjoy them!

      Be the captain of your own ship! Only allow those near who deserve it! Put yourself and your lovely kids first. Be your own fierce protector.

      No one who acts to upset you is worth worrying or getting wrapped up in guilt over. You are entitled to space and peace and should t be made to feel guilty about it.

      And don’t feel you have to explain or justify your actions to those people. You don’t.

    • #11392
      Ayanna
      Participant

      If you can, cut the contact to your family. This saves you lots of hurt. My experience ….

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