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    • #30355
      Serenity
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      My ex is paying literally next to nothing for my kids. Literally, the smallest amount ever. It doesn’t even cover a lunch, what he pays for each child per day.

      I happen to know that he is earning masses cash in hand, and he flaunts this.

      I have been withholding some information from the child maintenance out of fear, because I came across it by inadvertently opening some of his mail. His fault for not continuing to have his post redirected -cheap skate.

      I was worried about getting a slapped wrist for opening this mail, but I have had enough- it’s beyond a joke. I saw my ex driving around in his expensive (detail removed by moderator), and apparently he only shops in the best supermarket. I just saw red and posted off this evidence.

      This evod nice proves he is earning much more than he claims. I don’t care if I get told off for opening the mail. He is literally lying to child maintenance and to tgectax office. I think he’s guilty of major tax fraud.

      I do t know if they’ve told him that I passed on the info, but I have had two calls on my mobile from an unknown number in an area that I know he likes and may have friends.

      I missed the calls, but I am glad I did. I wonder if he might have the audacity to call me and threaten me from an unknown number, or to get a friend to call and threaten me?

    • #30360
      KIP.
      Participant

      Good for you. I wouldnt stop there. I would let my divorce lawyer know too. Can you ask a friend to ring the number on your phone to see who it is. Or ring the police and ask them if they can ring on your behalf as you’re frightened he’s started stalking you again. Lay it on thick X

    • #30361
      Velveteenbun
      Participant

      Ugh you did right to send that off. I doubt you will get into any trouble over it. He may have rung you or got someone else to. I imagine if they have been in touch with them he would blame you for that (if he is anything like my ex it will be your fault it rains). I don’t answer my phone to numbers I don’t know genuine callers will leave a message. I would log it with the police and let them know you have a concern I was advised to do that yesterday by idas with regard to my ex.

    • #30366
      Serenity
      Participant

      Thanks, ladies.

      I am pretty sure he will try to intimidate or threaten me over the child maintenance.

      I think I will call the police tomorrow to ask their advice.

    • #30376
      Confused123
      Participant

      Hi Hun

      THink u did right in opening the letter and sending off, they try to get away with too much

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