Christmas

[Better-days]

Hi everyone I just want to come on and say that I hope everyone is doing ok. I have been having a bad week. Christmas for most of us on here is a dreaded time. My emotions are already all over the place. I promised myself last year that I wasn’t doing another year living in misery with him yet here we r, iv been upset all weekend I could just run away. But just got to keep fighting iv got wee kiddies who need me.

[Happybelle]

Hang on in there. It’s so flipping hard . Nobody knows it truly but you. x

[Better-days]

Thank u so much this means a lot. I’m trying to keep my spirits up x

[Stargazing1]

Sending gentle hugs your way 🤗 💜.  Please take care of yourself and keep safe 💖. God bless you always

[Better-days]

Same to u too thank u so very much x

[Stargazing1]

You are so welcome @Better-Days . Please take care of yourself. Best wishes always ❤️

[Sad and alone]

It’s sad isn’t it that everyone around us is looking forward to Christmas and we just have to figure out how to navigate around it. We don’t have a family so it’s just us. I have a relative I was going to visit for a few days before Christmas but that’s off the table now as me going just caused more arguments. I get sad at Christmas as I miss my parents. I miss those childhood Christmases that were so special. Now they’re usually just anxiety-laden hoping nothing goes wrong. That and new year are the worst.

[nbumblebee]

2 weeks off work i dread it.

Keep going better days you got this xxxx

[Better-days]

Ur right it’s So very sad I’m trying my best too to put on a brave face telling we one I love it when I actually dread it my kids r young so they keep my spirits up which good. D no no

[Better-days]

And you do too we can get through it together x*x

[Stargazing1]

My heart goes out to all members here .    Sending gentle hugs your way 🤗 💜   . Take care and keep safe. 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[Stargazing1]

I empathise with all members here now and always.  You are all good people  .  You deserve so much kindness 💗.  Just remember how special you all are.

[older lady]

My thoughts always return to the ladies of this forum at Christmas.  I counted my years to freedom in Christmases; it can be the most difficult time of year for many, I know.   My best wishes for a peaceful Christmas and a happy new year to us all. x

[Bluebirds]

Sending love to you all!! Christmas is such a hard time. Stay strong ladies xx

this will be my first Christmas without my ex in (time frame removed by moderator), bitter sweet and very surreal! Still got anxiety but I know for a fact I will not feel how I do every year with him. I honestly didn’t think this time last year I’d be alone ( well at mums) feeling proud although sad at the same time.

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