Hi VikingQueen
A good step to take, but it depends what you think you will do with the information you get.
I haven’t done this before, but I have been asked by a g/f of his to disclose details, but when I weighed it up I figured she wasn’t going to do anything about this information anyway and all it would do is cause more abuse, so I didn’t disclose anything (rightly or wrongly).
At least you won’t have that consideration under Clares Law, but, what will you do with what you find out, are you prepared to walk away from him? Or would you think he only did it to the other and wouldn’t do it to you? i.e. her fault.
Might it make you feel invalidated in your suspicions if it doesn’t reveal anything?
Just some thoughts to consider before taking this step so you are prepared for after.
warmest wishes
ts