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      kindSoul
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      Lately I’ve been overthinking everything that happened, I mean is already (detail removed by moderator) that we broke up and I started the lawsuit and then the trial is in (detail removed by moderator) so I feel so confused about if keeping this on track or just dropped it, he seems to have everything on his power to win this and I’m so afraid of ended up so frustrated because of the whole process and then just be depressed. I think I’m already experiencing some depress episodes.

      Some general thought will be so helpful. I feel no even my friends and family understand what I’m going through, they are like it has been already some months get over it.

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      KIP.
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      Hi, you won’t always feel this way and if you have a chance at holding him accountable then my advice is to keep going. Try to sort out some counselling and take a look at Healing From Hidden Abuse book. And The Body Keeps The Score, which is about trauma. Gather a support network from victim support and women’s aid and speak to your GP about a referral for counselling. I know I’d have regretted allowing him to get away with his abuse even though it was a real struggle for a long time. We need to process the trauma and maybe this trial will give you closure. Meantime be kind to yourself x

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