Controlling behaviour

[Purplebloom]

I was with my ex for a lot of years, I didn’t want to admit this abuse was happening and always told it’s just arguments, which makes me still doubt myself to this very day! But I have lots of text messages with name calling and him constantly telling me the relationship is over and I need to leave, is being told the relationship is over multiple times any sort of controlling tactic? I’m just trying to make myself feel better about all this

[sweet4]

Same here, (detail removed by Moderator) years, i have been with him since i was (detail removed by Moderator), (detail removed by Moderator) ago, he shouted to tell me to get out of the house. are you still with him keep postingxx

[Purplebloom]

No I’m away but he wonders why I didn’t believe him the final time after I was told so many times before over the tears

[spiritedaway]

mine would tell me to get out and always said it was his house, the final time he said it was over I was at breaking point and said fine, picked up a bag and left. As I left he was pleading me to stay. It is control, they want everything on their own terms.

[Purplebloom]

Yup same as me again it was always it’s his house so I had to leave with our child with no where to go

[spiritedaway]

going that final time though was a relief, I went from worrying about what the future looked like to not caring (at least for a while) I haven’t given him any contact since. My future is my business not his

[Lostnalone]

It’s shocking how many stories sound so familiar!! I left as there was no way would he leave. Bin bags n boxes to show for yrs of existence!! Its sad but hopefully we are all safe. Sending u all my best.xx

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