Hi, I’m still struggling with getting my partner to leave, whether I should, whether I’m being too dramatic, whether I’m imagining it etc etc. My friends who I have told are absolutely behind me in that his behaviour has been abusive, but I’m still being drawn into maybe I have it wrong, maybe it is really me. So I feel I would benefit in talking to someone I don’t know who understands the whole cycle of abuse. It’s the whole self doubt thing, and my brain gets so terribly muddled, I emailed my local Woman’s aid to see if they had a list of private counsellors but they don’t. Just wondering if anyone knows if there is a register somewhere I could refer to? Thanks