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    • #147211
      Managing111@
      Participant

      Hi everyone,After telling you all on here I was over it,for some reason I went for a walk with him to tell him how I feel that we can never have a relationship and not be together it’s just wrong after everything,as he still wants to carry on drinking,his only answer was so can we still have sex,We then went (detail removed by moderator) and I left as he started drinking a lot.🙄why am I doing this to myself again.

    • #147212
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      I’m sorry I had to laugh and I’m not being insensitive, but my question would of been how is he going to even have sex with you with the amount of alcohol his drinking ! He thinks by having sex he will have a hold over you & to be perfectly honest his insulting you , totally disrespectful. Not interested in any relationship , but he wants to carry on drinking & you become a b****e call now ! You know what you need to do , his not on the same page as you , please try & walk away , you will end up more hurt in the process , he won’t feel any emotions , his numbed them with alcohol, you deserve more and better than what his offering you xx

    • #147213
      Managing111@
      Participant

      Thanks again duchess I didn’t want to put it on here as I was embarrassed,but couldn’t tell anyone else what an idiot I was meeting him.Makes me think he didn’t Really want me anyway I was just something he could fall on when drunk 🤮 x

    • #147215
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      I wouldn’t put yourself down hun , laugh at him how much of a joker he is and pathetic sounding! His hoping by offering sex your fall back into a relationship with him as he is sooooo irresistible, then it’s on his terms again, still drinking , and back with you , see him for what he really is ! Xx

    • #147216
      Managing111@
      Participant

      😂😂😂 definitely not irresistible xxxx

    • #147217
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      😂😂😂 bless ya lol xx

    • #147219
      Mellow
      Blocked

      Mine did this too said he wanted sex do not do it .i did and I felt used and disgusting the feeling of it is awful I ended the relationship but still lived with him and he coerced me to have sex I didn’t always say no cause he would sulk .i even used it for my own power as I felt I had some control aswell even though really he got what he wanted the worse thing about it he was chatting to other women had his way with me then (detail removed by moderator) like nothing had just happened I’ve never felt more used he even said I can have you when I want .and at some points sexually abused me when I tried to say no .when I slept he woke me aswell and would try it

    • #147221
      Mellow
      Blocked

      And he has no feelings for you .you are right go with your instinct.your instinct is right cause there actions don’t match .if he wanted to change for you he would stop drinking and using you for sex

    • #147226
      Managing111@
      Participant

      Thanks for your support ❤️ How can some people be so cruel 😢

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