Creepy

[teatime]

I saw Creepo in the shopping centre the other day. He was coming towards me with a stupid smile on his face. So I turned round and went in a shop.

(detail removed by moderator), I was driving home from my job I do in the morning. I am pretty sure it was him in the car behind me, (detail removed by moderator) ( I hate these now).
I could not get the reg. as was back to front in the mirror.I am not sure how long he was behind me, if it WAS him. I drove safely and fast and he went off in another direction. I did wonder if he knows I am moving and is trying to find out where I will be living… ugh! I just told my partner.
He knows all about him and knew him pretty well when I was going out with him.

It’s quite a few years since I left Creepo for being violent and a completely horrible person. He attacked me in the car and nearly killed us both.
I didn’t tell my Mum as I don’t want to worry her, and I can hardly tell the Police as I am not 100% sure. I only have a description of the car too.

[fizzylem]

Hello teatime, you’ve documented this inccident, date, time and what happed on your post. Sometimes one inccident in isolation leaves us feeling unsure, it’s not until there are a few inccidents that we start to see the fuller picture – maybe this is a one piece, or maybe not. Only time will tell hey. But in the meantime be cautious and take care not to put yourself in any vulnerable situations where you are on your own. FL.x

[teatime]

I hardly go out as am a bit disabled. I live with my kind partner and he does the shopping etc. I’m about to turn a new chapter in my life. I really could have done without seeing him. Such a pain. I wondered if it was because it was Valentine’s Day. He really is pathetic.

[fizzylem]

Sounds like you think V day triggered something for you? You feeling any different today now it has passed? I want to say to you, life sounds like its taking a turn for the better? With your new move and partner? Don’t let him ruin this! Try and keep him out of your thoughts, invadig your mind and what you have now. FL.x

[teatime]

You are right x

[freedomtochoose]

HEllo there teatime,
I don’t know if this will help, but read something in a therapy magazine at the weeknd about a therapist who herself had experience of being stalked and identified the fact that there is need for specialist services in this area.

The woman founded an organisation and changed the law on this one as well as raising awreness of the links between stalking and domestic abuse and how difficult this is for women to deal with.

We are not supposed to post links but I can name the organisation here and hope hou can find it.

All best
ftc

Quotes from article

“Working with stalking victims requires specialised knowledge and currently there is little in the way of specialised support services for victims of stalking within the UK. Given the prevalence of this crime without our society, more and more victims will be seeking professional support. Unfortunatley counselling support for psychological abuse does not hold a specialised place within the prescribed protocals of NHS psychological services thus forcing victims to engage with voluntary services and seek private counselling support…

…Ann Moulds is a BABCP – accredited CBT psychotherapist founder and CEO of Action Against Stalking…A.A.S is a national and international charity which leads the way in advancing recognition of stalking, championing the rights of stalking victims and related predatory crimes…
”

Sorry that was a bit long but wanted to get the info out there as many will be affected…

ftc
x

[teatime]

Thank you all x

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