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    • #56328
      Ayanna
      Participant

      I have a huge issue with social contacts since I fled.

      My new neighbour took a parcel for me and I have enormous issues approaching him to give me my parcel.
      I heard him today and could have walked over and asked him.
      Instead I kept all windows locked and made no noise, pretending I was not at home until he left.
      I only left the house when he was gone.
      I need that parcel because it contains things that I really want.
      Usually my parcels are delivered in front of my door and I pick them up.
      I feel angry that has not been done on this occasion as well.
      I really do not want to approach him or talk to him.
      Asking him for my parcel feels impossible to me.
      I am stuck.

    • #56338
      KIP.
      Participant

      Can you put a note through his door thanking him and asking him to leave the parcel in front of your door?

    • #56342
      fridges
      Participant

      Ayanna, I’m sorry how you feel about it.
      After the last experience, it took me years, to become a bit more sociable and I stick only to comfort people wit whom I feel well spending time.
      Did you ask yourself what makes you to feel so uncomfortable with the neighbour? That you do not want to have even min contact with him?

    • #56349
      Ayanna
      Participant

      He is a man, that is my main issue.
      (detail removed by moderator).

      KIP, I am going to write a note. That is the only way I can retrieve this parcel. So annoying.

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