He leaves at any given opportunity where he feels he has an excuse to, such as the kids playing up or me daring to go out with friends / family without him . He Disappears all night then comes home in a day or two and expects me to just be ok with that . I’ve had enough . It’s not right is it ? To just leave all the time ? I have no idea where he goes but I’m guessing there are other women involved . Of course he’ll deny this but I know it’s true, he’s got form for it . How can I escape this relationship ? Hes so controlling and he will use the kids to hurt me , to get his own way, he does it every time . I’m backed into a corner but I desperately want a way out