Did your abuser find out about the help you reached for?

[Chocolatebunnie]

Hi I’m wondering if anyone has been in touch with Wonensaid or local services for support, and their abuser has found out?

I’m asking as things are ok for now,concerned he will find out from someone I have told who although very close to me is emotionally unstable right now and could disclose the fact I have said he’s abusive and been in touch with WA.

[Catjam]

Mine has, he wasn’t impressed. He has said he will go on the course they run for men like him but he is convinced it’s just a case of me misunderstanding him all these years. Mine is emotionally abusive and controlling.
Mine becomes ‘ill’ if he feels me pulling away. He once claimed he had found a lump and he had been back and forth getting it checked. My punishment for not giving him the birthday he wanted.
I’m not the best equipped to answer how a violent man may react unfortunately but I think I would make sure my escape plan was in place so I could get away quickly. Hopefully someone more qualified will come on and help.
Take care x

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