I’m sorry to what have happened to you, and you guys have been strong to walk until now. I guess with disability it’s quite hard to speak up, bc you seems more vulnerable to the manipulation. As sb also live with disabilities (a mental one), I must admit it makes you a lot more vulnerable. For me, they attack my weak point and disabilities, saying that I’m a w****o, and also that this is my brain’s shortcomings. Sometimes they treat me as sb with an incomplete brain, and to manipulate and make me feel like everything is my fault, and I’m there to hurt and consume them. They’re so haunting and it makes me feel suicidal sometimes.
Welcome to the forum, I hope you can find supports here! X