Hi HUn
Not sure how old your child is , mine were teenagers when i left , i too was looking for books but didnt find any, what helped me , or should i say the children, was reasurance that they were still loved and i told them the truth that we cant live together cause there is no respect or love left and when there is any of that left there is no point, for me i also pointed out that ex hurt me and b4 i got hurt i need to get away and stay away and i had given loads of chances but no more. |If it is save to do so, allow them to have contact with their dad, but becareful the other side dont givve wrong messages out as that can unsettle the kids