My ex has never been physical but has abused me emotionally, financially and even now we are split up still controls me so I can’t move on or get friends. I put a status on social media (detail removed by Moderator) and with in seconds he messaged me about it so I deleted it and deleted my account. I contacted (detail removed by Moderator) before and was offered help but got scared because I heard about a law that if his new partner asked they would give information. He was never physical but admitted he was awful to me and wants to change I don’t want to get support if it will go on record as he doesn’t believe it’s abuse he just treated me like c**p.