I’ve been away from my husband for x amount of time and am really doing quite well, having a new home, having the confidence to go for jobs. Only thing is, I’m still fighting my husband, who appears determined to take me back to the broken thing I was when I left him. Does it ever end? Is there ever a time when you stop having to gird your loins for another battle?
I am actually divorced now and my ex has recently started another round of trying to affect and destroy me. It seems ongoing.
All we can do is build up our barriers, fortify our castle, sever links ( or as many links as possible), get the right advice of what they are trying to s are us with, and keep on talking it out. Over time, their efforts to destabilise us will weaken in power.
You’re doing so well. You should be proud of yourself! x