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I’m doing my plan finally.
ive been out a number of months and now its phase 2 with relocating many miles away. Selling up and going. Just waiting on last paperwork and have found a spot I would like to be. Fingers crossed new year new town.
yes we can ladies :). In my darkest time I was sobbing, rocking on the sofa as a grown lady crying for my mother. And now I’ll be just down the road and cannot b****y well wait!!
He didn’t think I’d do it. They never do :).
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Hello Happybelle,
That’s wonderful that your out, proud of you, as that is a big step in the right direction!
How did you do it ? Did you wait until he was not there or what?
I honestly feel foolish because in my situation we do not even live together, even though it seems like we do because he is almost always at my place And yet I can not seem to get him gone! You would think it would be easier to get him gone because of the fact that we don’t live together!
It is kind of embarrassing, because there are some people on this forum that do live with there partner and yet they are getting out of their situation, yet I’m still in mine! Any thoughts and/or suggestions on how I can get him gone? He has a few items here but that’s it as far as that goes!
I finally got the courage and told him a few weeks ago that I wanted him gone and he said he would leave me alone, yet he is still here! what to do? And on top of it all he is Love bombing me on overdrive! He wrote me a note not to long ago that professing his love for me, it literally disgust me as I know it is all lies,
because after all he has said and done to me over the last several years, I don’t believe a word that he says about anything anymore!
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It’s not embarrassing at all- it’s so difficult and we are all different. You will find a way and I’m sorry to see that’s happening.
he loved at my house and I tried to get him out so many times. The last time he was so vile and horrible it was a “now or never” moment and phoned the police and they took him away. Was horrible but I would do it again in a heartbeat now.
get him gone, change your locks. If you’re feeling it’s wrong then it’s wrong. I would start by telling friends about it. You’ll be surprised at how responsive and supportive people are. Maybe pack his things and take them to his place and just leave them outside. I wish I had done that. Mine love bombed me and I realised he just needed somewhere to live.
Hopefully it all works out. Good luck! x
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