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10th April 2024 at 8:21 pm #167705
Butterfly-A
ParticipantYesterday, a colleague told me she had worked out what was happening to me at home.
She was extremely supportive and signposted me to another wellbeing department, they advised me I could get emergency (same day) accommodation from them, however this is only available until September so if I want to do it, i need to act fast!
Now im stuck between feeling guilty and also wanting to just take the next step so I dont miss this opportunity
How will I ever know that im ready?
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10th April 2024 at 8:29 pm #167707
Texas
ParticipantWhy not see it as an opportunity to take a break to give you a chance to think? Then if you want to stay away for good then you have somewhere safe.
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10th April 2024 at 9:54 pm #167708
nbumblebee
ParticipantYou will never be ready.
You will always feel guilty.
But do you want to feel regret?
This is your opportunity to break free. I wish i wish with all my heart that when I had the chance I had taken it and quick now its gone and im stuck here and i cant see a way out again. Dont regret not trying that will hurt way more.
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10th April 2024 at 10:06 pm #167712
ocean20
ParticipantI would take this as a little sign from the universe and a nudge in the direction that would be better for you x
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11th April 2024 at 10:40 am #167730
Butterfly-A
ParticipantThank you everyone XX
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11th April 2024 at 9:30 pm #167758
Atsah
ParticipantYes it is a sign.i am not saying it’s easy because it isn’t but i ended up staying for over (detail removed by Moderator) years and it just gets harder and harder to leave.you should do it..i wish u luck whatever u decide to do.you will find the strength to do this x
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15th April 2024 at 7:58 pm #167885
Sungirl
ParticipantTake the opportunity to get a break and have time to see what it’s like being out of the relationship. Focus on yourself. I left (detail removed by Moderator) but ended coming back and now am struggling to work out how to leave again. Although trying to focus on the fact I did it before I can do it again. Good luck to you!
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15th April 2024 at 9:52 pm #167887
Stargazing1
Participant@Butterfly-A, I hope you can find that strength and go . I wish you nothing but the very best in life . Take the chance. Sending lots of special hugs .
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