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      soconfused2
      Participant

      Sorry, me again.

      I’m a year into a horrific divorce. I initiated it after weeks of silent treatment and then being told the problem was me. At the time I thought for various reasons he was emotionally abusive.

      I don’t know if I was abused and this doubt is a result of that, a trauma bond etc, or if I’m awful and everything is my fault.

      Now I’m completely doubting myself and so so sad. We’re still in the same house for now, he ignores me completely even in front of young primary age DC. I just feel like I’ve ruined all our lives and I’ll never be happy again.

      Can anyone offer me any hope? Anything I can do to feel better? I’m completely broken.

    • #153994
      StrongLife
      Participant

      Hi there,

      Congrats on getting through the year. Have you thought of in person therapy? Or socialising?

    • #154101
      soconfused2
      Participant

      Thanks for your reply. I’m having therapy. I’m also trying to socialise more, but finding it hard as have lost touch with some friends and have lost confidence. Will keep trying though. I feel like I am trying everything I can think of, but just not feeling any better. I just want to be happy again…

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