Hi Ladies, not posted for a while and after your thoughts and experiences please.
Young child, not yet at school, who for past few months has struggled with overnight contact and prior to that there were issues too. Hasnt stayed this year. At beginning of year ex took child when was very distressed and didnt want to go with him and didnt bring child back when said he would. Child keeps getting distressed and daddy brings child home, child doesnt stay over. We agree a break from overnight. We try again a few months later and same thing happens. i wrote to ex asking for his thoughts on this. Ex doesnt respond. i asked him again, no response. i have asked several times for him not to speak to child about it til we have discussed and tried to agree way forward, as causes worry to child, child feels pressured. Ex ignores me and speaks to child, promising child this and that if child stays etc. Ex has spoken to child and is telling me we are trying overnight contact again.