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    • #86732
      Iwantmeback
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      I no longer tolerate any form of rudeness or bad behaviour. I’ve just deleted and blocked 2 people who I’ve known for over a decade. At first I was agitated and tummy churning, then I was annoyed, now I’m just peed off at them. I just think back to how id have swept their behaviour under the carpet and make excuses for why they were like that. No more and it feels very liberating.
      💪💞💞

    • #86750
      KIP.
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      I agree. Our eyes are truly opened when we confront the abuse we have suffered and I can see so many traits in others now. I won’t tolerate that behaviour from anyone. My own sister thinks I should ignore my mothers abusive and controlling behaviour because she’s ‘an old lady’. No, not all old ladies are abusive. I’ve recently started a beginners course in psychology and we need to have an even balance of givers and takers around us or we burn out. When we are constantly with takers, it drains us x

    • #86758
      diymum@1
      Participant

      im the same dont take any c**p these days! ive recently taken a stand at work too and said i dont appreciate the goal posts being changed and then getting a row! it feels good to take a stand xx very empowering

      well done to you both x*x love diymum

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