feel so guilty

[betterdays]

For not contacting him. I’m thinking should I at least be on speaking terms. But there again been there before and I’m ok for first day or so then these angry feelings come over me and reminders of what he’s done. So jumbled had an awful weekend. X

[SaharaD]

Hi betterdays I’m sorry that you had an awful weekend.

For some people weekends are the worst. I work on weekends and I’m only up because I came back from a date so I can meet my carer early this morning.

Don’t feel guilty for protecting yourself and kids.

That’s what I think. Self protection and preservation when I think I should be in contact with my abusive husband.

We are better off no contact.

[Anonymous]

I agree with SaharaD, Betterdays, no contact is the way forward.

No guilt required – he’s the only one who needs to feel that.

You need to feel proud of the brave, generous, kind spirit you have and share with your difficult boys.

We see it, they know it.

Do you know, I wish I’d had a mum like you 🌺

Much love S xx

[Confused123]

Hi HUn

U have nothing guilty to feel about, the no contact is in place to make u stronger and so he cant reach u or kids

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