Think my ex is trying to find out who I know, who im friends with and where I go etc. He lives in a different town to me, not too far away. I moved when I left him.
When he has contact he is now quite regularly staying in the town where I live with our child and going places I go to with our child. I now know he has been talking to mums of friends of our childs from a group.
It makes me feel very uncomfortable. I know he will just say he is saving on driving etc but he doesn’t need to be here. Ive tried so hard to make sure he knows nothing about my life here and knows nothing about my friends, where I go, who I know, details of wwhere our child goes, etc
Its so annoying when they do this, suppose hard is bit ignoring them so they get no reaction out of us, u could ask him direct why his asking around about u or warn parents /other mothers not to disclose any info about u or child