Feeling I am in trouble

[teatime]

I survived childhood bullying and intimidation at school and was badly beaten as a teen.
I survived an abusive marriage and a much later abusive relationship… the latter one was very foolish of me but I was in love with him.
I think I feel so damaged nothing can damage me.
I have a painful chronic illness.
I have been bullied in my workplace and now have to leave my home.
I do have love and support. I have a platonic relationship which is very kindly.
I would have wanted more but I suppose it will have to be this as I have no trust in myself to find a suitable man and anyway I feel old and worn down.
Everyone kind says I am pretty and vibrant. I am skilled in lots of interesting ways.
But somehow I feel the real me is a poor hesitant little old lady.
And somehow I always feel I am in trouble.Like something bad will happen to me.
Can I get rid of this feeling? I feel vulnerable.

[Lisa]

Hi,

I hope it is helping you to offload to us teatime. Lean on the support around you and keep posting to us whenever you need to.

You are a Survivor and we are here for you.

Best wishes,

Lisa

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