Feeling really positive today. Husband is being so nice to me which makes for a lovely calm house. Almost makes me feel sorry for him that in my head at present it’s not going to make the slightest difference. He will have to move out as I need a house for the children. Simple as really. Does feel a little bit wrong actually looking forward to a time when I don’t have to answer to him, walk on eggshells about what I say and can make my own decisions, heck I already am as I have made this one. I need to find out what the experts think, if it is emotional abuse I have the law on my side which will make things easier. Looking forward to enjoying my life with my 4 gorgeous kids.
On a practical note. Evidence as much as you can. Keep a diary or log. You must tell your GP. If things turn nasty, which they will. It will be your word against his. Confiding in your GP holds a lot of weight. I don’t want to worry you but you have to think ahead. It’s great that you feel positive and can see his cycle of abuse. The loving phase never lasts x