This topic contains 2 replies, has 2 voices, and was last updated by  IWillBeHappy 5 months, 3 weeks ago.

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  • #87443

    I just feel worthless. I have a young baby and he’s been seen with someone else already. It shouldn’t upset me but it does. Although he put down in every way, he also made me feel special too. I don’t want to get rid of my engagement ring, but why should I keep it?

    I’m also worried about him as he hasn’t been able to pick up his medication as the olice haven’t been available.

    When ever I’ve missed him before I always gone back and can’t do that again. But I don’t know if I’m strong enough to stay away 🙁

  • #87448

    Yes you are strong enough 😊
    You’ve got this far, you can carry on xx

    What you are feeling is completely normal. You feel this way because you are a caring, compassionate and loving person. You are worth so much more than what he has made you believe.

    Remember that he does this to you to make himself feel better – typical bully behaviour. He doesn’t deserve your kind thoughts and concern.

    Remind yourself of all the horrible, hurtful things he said you. Read through some posts on here – I know they remind me of just why I left, they help keep me from giving in and calling him.

    We are here for you.

    Huge hugs and love xx

  • #87454

    Escapee thats exactly what I’m doing. Thank you I’m certainly feeling the love from your reply thank you so much x

    Reading other ladies posts is also helping me realise how bad it was getting and how lucky I am to be out of it. Although it is early days and I know at some point child access arrangements will be tricky and another gateway for his abuse.

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