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Hi ladies thank you so much 😊 thank you Lisa. I never thought this could or would happen. Tick tock tick tock the clocks ticking wooop before I know it I’ll be a free woman! You know what everyday I realise what it’s like to live a NORMA life the life I lived with him is so false!!!! My friend has already ordered lots of decorations for my divorce party lol she’s adamant I’m having one and is telling me about all the games you can play about your ex lol. You know what ladies here is living proof that you are capable of standing up to perpetrators hey will not keep getting away with this time and time again we won’t let them. I realised he didn’t get a birthday present or xmas present from me this year. I’m spending that money on MYSELF instead! Good riddance to bad rubbish!!! Xxxc
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Your posts are so positive Positive!!! You have such a zesty vibe about you X*X
I feel proud of myself this year, when it comes to New Years Day and I have not made one attempt to contact my ex or any of his relatives I will feel I have really achieved a milestone. I’ve a chaser by nature and chased and begged him when we were together, he treated me like something on the bottom of his shoe, i still chased him and tried to make it work. But, since we split I turned that around almost full circle and have chased him virtually never. If I feel ok come new years day with zero contact I will feel that my revenge is in sight. The satisfaction of knowing he has lost someone special that he had in me.
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Thank you also so so much. I stuck by him when really I should have left him so I’ve even shocked myself by taking this step. It’s a huge thing to do in my community. We had a religious occasion not do long ago and a family friend casually asked how my husband was. I told him we are getting divorced he was SPEECHLESS he couldn’t believe it. He said he could see so much potential and thought we were such a good match. He’s someone whose known me since I was a little girl someone who is deeply religious, would keep it confidential etc. But, the key thing is he believed me and you know what he did? He reassured me he said divorce is not a huge thing in my community anymore and I’m young enough to start over again he said move on and learn from this. I was married in front of hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of people. I had family from across the world attend. This news the failure of my marriage has hurt so many people I can genuinely say that from the bottom of my heart. I will be glad when it’s all out in the open and I can fully move on. I commend myself for doing this and as I recall it’s been HIM who begged to be with me! He thought we would beg for our marriage to be saved but little did he know that I DIDNT have his back through everything. Little did he know what I was capable of but guess what now he does! He’s the biggest loser on this planet every single person has said it even his own family. That says it all. I don’t need or want him and I’m far happier without him!
He thought we would be petrified about divorce and would be worried about remarrying. I’m not ashamed of divorce it shows I won’t stand for any c**p, I know what I’m worth and how I should be treated, I now know what I want, how I want it snd where I want it. I know what I’m worth I realise now he only put me down so much because he was jealous of my stable home and the opportunities I had in my life! How anyone can be jealous of their own wife is beyond me! I’ll find a man who doesn’t see me as a threat and supports me to reach my potential.
Well done Healthy you really aren’t missing anything. Honestly you want a new year new start away from him. He’s vile and it’s his loss. In reality he will never be what you want him to because he’s incapable of acting like a human being! These cowards are all losers we are the winners here. Thanks about your comments about my zesty vibe. He tried to dull my sparkle but it’s too bright to fizzle out!
Kitty well done you he doesn’t deserve to have anything of yours. What a leach trying to take everything! Degrading man they need to get some standards oh forgot they don’t have any! X*x
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Thank you so much for your lovely comments. I have a night out soon with very old friends. I am hoping that I will be able to remember the girl I once was. I met these friends way before I met him. I want to feel like me again and I cannot wait to let my hair down. Of course all these people were not right for me according to him. They are my friends I chose who I speak to, who I socialise with, where I socialise and what we do. These things are no in no way shape or form anything to do with a partner or husband. They’re the individual’s choices! X*x
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