Hi Whitedove
Welcome to the forum. Sorry to hear you are feeling so unsupported at the moment, if you no longer have an IDVA you should be able to contact your local DV service and ask if there are any other support services you can access like support groups or the Freedom Programme or if they offer counselling.
Also you can contact the helpline on 0808 2000 247 and they can also have a look for any other services that you might find useful.
You have done so well to get out and i am glad you have found the forum as we are here to support you.
Take care and keep posting
Lisa