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    • #19814

      He hasn’t changed a bit – showed his true colours last night by hounding me with phonecalls and texts – when I asked him to stop he ignored me and was goading me to call the police – saying that there is no reason to stop (as the non-molestation order has expired) – not surprised but makes me sad every time that he can’t see himself for what he really is – a sad, insecure, controlling bully and I feel stupid for not seeing it and doing something about it earlier. Worrying about his escalating bad behaviour with me and generally – he is definitely on a downward spiral – called my lady at WA this morning – we haven’t spoken for the last few months so feel like I am going back to the dark dark days of a few years ago and not sure I have the strength to do it all again x*x

    • #19817

      Sorry to hear this, if he is goading you to call the police why don’t you take him at his word, you cant take all of this and if he has had an order once maybe he needs another one, dont let him drag you down, report it, do you have texts as evidance of what he has said, nip it in the bud, show him you won’t stand for it , he is testing you to see if he upset you again xx

    • #19819

      Report it to the police, can you get another non-molestation order seeing as he behaves when you have one.
      Please don’t think as going back to WA as a step backwards.

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