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    • #70309
      Popilol
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      He told me I couldn’t manage without him. Told me I’d struggle with money. Told me it was all me and twisted everything around to him being the victim.

      So I booked a holiday (going soon). Paid my bills, went food shopping and managed Christmas presents and Christmas all by myself.

      I gained a non molestation order, took control. Read book after book! I am the victim of domestic abuse! I’m not ashamed of this, he abused my kind nature and generosity. We don’t all look weak and have no confidence. I’m not mad, I wasn’t seeing things wrong and my memory is perfectly fine. I reread his texts from previous years and there’s so much evidence of what he was doing, that I couldn’t see before, in the fog.

      I AM STRONG! I AM IN CONTROL! I AM POSITIVE!

      Ladies we can do this!!!

    • #70310
      Halfwayout
      Participant

      💪 Well done you!💪
      Great post of positivity!

    • #70312
      KIP.
      Participant

      You’re not a victim of domestic abuse. You are a true survivor of domestic abuse and don’t let anyone tell you different. Power to you✊️. The good news is the fog lifts and your brain power increases. Onwards and upwards 👏

    • #70319

      well done. well done. well done. Still fluey here so a bit under par but will soon join you in uplifting moments. all best
      ftc
      x

    • #70320
      Anabela
      Participant

      Such a happy post!!! Enjoy your holidays!!!

    • #70323
      Iwantmeback
      Participant

      Your post made me feel better Popilol. I’m feeling like that some days now, thanks to the strength and love from Everyone on here, one day I’ll do things for me and not have to worry that because he’s not done it he’ll not go or whatever it is he does to make it rotten.
      IWMB 💕💕

    • #70334
      Sci-figirl
      Participant

      Cheers to that!!! 🥂 xx

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