He told me I couldn’t manage without him. Told me I’d struggle with money. Told me it was all me and twisted everything around to him being the victim.
So I booked a holiday (going soon). Paid my bills, went food shopping and managed Christmas presents and Christmas all by myself.
I gained a non molestation order, took control. Read book after book! I am the victim of domestic abuse! I’m not ashamed of this, he abused my kind nature and generosity. We don’t all look weak and have no confidence. I’m not mad, I wasn’t seeing things wrong and my memory is perfectly fine. I reread his texts from previous years and there’s so much evidence of what he was doing, that I couldn’t see before, in the fog.
I AM STRONG! I AM IN CONTROL! I AM POSITIVE!
Ladies we can do this!!!