Hi Thistle06
I am sorry to hear about your situation. It sounds like he is making this so hard and being very unreasonable, it must be exhausting for you. He is very controlling and abusive, I hope you have some support to help you with this.
Your local domestic abuse service may be able to offer some emotional support. Additionally, if you are in need of free legal advice you could contact Rights of Women. They are a voluntary organisation that offer free confidential legal advice over the phone.
Take care and please keep posting to let us know how you are,
Lisa