Yes i had a womens aid support worker and she was fantastic. She didnt pressure me into doing anything. She listened and calmly explained my options. They have access to many more services. Can help with legal issues, advise on restraining orders, refuge places, safetly exit plans, exclusion orders so that you can remain in your own home, finances and emotional and mental support. Can go with you to speak to the domestic abuse police or free legal advice. Please keep trying. They really do understand and do not judge. There are books and courses they can supply to help you hnderstand the dynamics of abuse. Best help i ever had. They are very busy so call your local one right away as there was a short waiting list with mine and my worker had 24 women on her books x