He followed my son

[Surviving]

So my ex saw my son. My son told him to go away and leave him alone. He parked the car and walked over to him. Asking why he won’t speak to him So my son said because of everything he did to him. He went to ride his bike away with his friends but his dad just tryed following and shouting stuff to him.

[KIP.]

Your son has a right not to be harassed. You could try to add your son to your non mol?

[Twisted Sister]

My ex followed mine too, shouting and raging, through the town centre whilst child crying and trying to get away.

I really think there should be a non-mol against him doing this, sadly I didn’t get anywhere none took me seriously, but you could report it to police and ask what they are going to do about it?

Good luck

Warmest wishes ts

[Surviving]

My son has to speak to police tomorrow about it

[Twisted Sister]

Oh well done Surviving and SurvivingSon.

Hope it goes well for him, fingers crossed for good outcome and support for your son.

Warmest wishes ts

[KIP.]

Well done. When these men can’t get a response from us they resort to other methods. He wants you to break your zero contact. Remember to ask for domestic abuse police officers. Let your solicitor know too. Good luck. Your son has the right to an abuse free life too. Please reassure him he’s doing the right thing. It’s terrible when they involve our children. They have zero empathy.

[Surviving]

ThankYou everyone.

[Surviving]

The police get us all the way to the station just to say they can’t do anything it’s not harrassment. Could have said that over the phone. Pretty c**p that my son is brave to report to police but to be told they can’t do anything

[Twisted Sister]

Very sad and dispointing to hear that. Maybe your son would get better support and outcome speaking to professional support like nspcc, or childline for their specialist child advice.

Did the police say it was OK because he didnt lay his hands on him?

Warmest wishes ts

[Surviving]

Yea he said he isn’t doing him any harm. Really what about emotional harm and scaring him

[Twisted Sister]

I wonder what laws are supposed to protect us and our children, if the police are saying this isn’t a harmful way to treat your own child, or any child.

There is often quite a difference between what the police contact centre will tell you an what the individual pc will. One of them is wrong/right. You have it logged though, and gave full details on the phone?

Have you thought about contacting nspcc or childline for their view on it?

Warmest wishes ts

[Twisted Sister]

Something KIP said also…di you request domestic abuse officer?

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