If your ex is anything like my ex, he isn’t interested in why you got upset and angry, or your feelings, or what they may gave dive wrong: they are only interested in the fact that you dared to tell them off.
They are like kings with their sense of entitlement: they think they should get away with doing anything, and that people will just be like puppets and do exactly as they wish, and not dare to offer an opinion.
I believe that my ex is sexist, and thinks that women should know their place. X