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Hey so i split with my ex a (detail removed by Moderator) ago but he phoned me on his work phone cause i blocked him. He wanted to know about coming to pick up his (detail removed by Moderator) he forgot about and has also asked me for a hug because of our relationship ending that he is not coming to terms with it very well. Does anyone know what this means? Does he just want a hug or trying to worm his way in
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Worming back in, he may want a hug but do you? I wouldn’t trust his motives. See if you can drop his stuff off at a friends and not see him.
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He’s definitely trying to appeal to your nurturing side.
Is he likely to leave straight away or is he going to use it as an excuse to trap you in a scenario you don’t want to be in? Is he even allowed near your house?
You have to think of the possible outcomes of what he might do. You know him best.
As White Rose has said, try to drop off his stuff somewhere else or alternatively have a friend or relative round to hand it to him at the door.
As for hugs he can go to his mum, friends, relatives, teddy bear…
After a regular relationship going back for ‘hugs’ isn’t conducive to moving on, after an abusive one it could be a danger to your personal safety and detrimental to your personal wellbeing. -
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