Hi, okay you’ve told him 2x to leave you alone. Next time he contacts you , however nice being, contact the police. Don’t even reply to him. Let them know what the relationship has been like, that you’ve asked him 2x to leave you alone. As long as you don’t get into a tit4tat with him they will take it seriously. The police are aware of da,manipulation and coercive behaviour. When you call them be sure to ask for domestic abuse officers.
Best wishes IWMB 💞💞